yes, we have a good time and when the older one pulls on the baby's leg or arm or pushes him we tell him that wasn't nice but while we are talking later we let him over hear us say,"that isn't right, he shouldn't bully his brother." We hope he understands that we don't approve of that behavior. His little brother sometimes laughes but sometimes he has a sad look on his face,"why is my brother mean to me." I pick the little one up to protect him and tell Reece, no but otherwise I can't think of what else to do.